In today’s busy world, most parents think that all they need to do is to earn a lot of money so they can send their children to good schools, if not the best. Parents, also hire tutors who can train their children in various fields, such as music, art, mathematics, and what not. Moreover, some of us monitor our children’s activities to ensure that they are only doing the things that are worth their time and our money.

Parents usually underestimate their roles in molding their children’s intelligence. They see themselves as mere providers, whose function is to work hard and earn big to but the best things for their children. Parents tend to overlook their responsibility to give their children the so called “quality time”. Quality time is defined as the substantial amount of time that one dedicates to focus on a specific activity that is usually related to family. Quality time, therefore, does not necessarily mean that you need to go to the park, mall, and theater. Quality time comes in many forms. The simplest way to achieve it is through small conversations.

Quality time and constant communication are two keys that unlock your child’s emotional and psychological health. On one hand, research has proven that parents who spend quality time with their children become more satisfied about their parenting experience. On the other hand, children who receive quality time become more confident and secured. They feel a higher sense of security and self-esteem, than the children who spend time with their nannies or in daycare centers.

Once your child becomes confident, he or she will surely be more fulfilled about his small and big achievements; therefore, he or she will aspire to achieve better things. He will get used to the feeling of satisfaction and victory; the two most important values that a child needs in growing up, emotionally and psychologically.

Parents should set a specific time when they can completely focus on giving quality time and communicating to their children. They must select the time of the day when they are both emotionally and physically relaxed. In this state, they can address their children’s needs and have fun while doing it. All parents must set his or her priorities. All parents must remember that his or her child needs both quality time and communication. You can start by fixing your schedule. Make sure that you come home early, and you finish all your work in the office. Thus, you can dedicate your entire time to them when you come home. Truly, a win-win situation for both the child and the parent.